Some of the most important lessons about relationships aren’t learned from advice, they’re learned by paying attention.

In this episode of Behind the Bima, Rabbi Efrem Goldberg and Rabbi Philip Moskowitz sit down with Rebbetzin Shoshana Schachter for a grounded conversation about dating, parenting, and the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships.

Rather than offering formulas or guidance, Rebbetzin Schachter reflects on what she has learned from watching people closely over time: how emotional awareness affects dating conversations, how restraint plays a role in raising children, and why learning when to hold back can be just as important as knowing what to say.

This episode explores how wisdom forms slowly, through presence, patience, and paying attention to the people in front of us.

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 – Intro
0:40 – Banter
17:34 – Rebbetzin Schachter Interview

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Also available on Apple and Spotify:
🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-bima/id1513477929
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This season of Behind the Bima is sponsored by Julie Charlestein & Darryl Benjamin in honor of their grandparents, Morton & Malvina Charlestein, and their children, Ruby and Maccabi Benjamin.